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combat—wombat:

xmackenziex:

(TW: emotional and verbal abuse, manipulation)

I am taking a step back from tumblr (and the internet/social media in general) due to lots of shit I need to deal with in my life. My five-month intimate relationship with Jenna ended due to lots of…

THIS!! EVERYTHING IN THIS COMMENTARY!! 

I wrote something in a comment on my tumblr recently that is directly related to this. By the time G had assaulted me, he had already sexually assaulted one other community member and engaged in a lot of shitty behavior with other people after claiming to have ‘worked on his shit’. He is currently now undergoing some sort of ‘accountability process’, but it’s not one that I am very involved with, because I don’t trust him to change. People tell me that he’s doing a good job, but I don’t know what the fuck that means anymore.

And I have a similar question - why the fuck to we keep being friends with people simply because they do not resist an ‘accountability process’, and move on to learn to speak to lingo? How many times can one person fuck people over in a community until we don’t take it anymore?

Someone actually had the guts to say to me when I voiced concern about his new relationship, that “Well, if he does it again… there’ll be trouble…” I read: Your assault or the one before, not such a big deal, we’re not going to get upset… but if he does it AGAIN…. well, that’s another story.

ADKFHWEP&T%@#%T&WPSGHS So disappointing.